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Welcome to the first edition of our e-newsletter.

Each month we will share information related to the services we provide to you, including:

Constructive Dialogue®
                Conflict Resolution
                              Management Coaching
                                          Partnering

In each edition you'll find:

  • Practical strategies that can be applied on the job
  • Case histories and best practice examples
  • Theoretical underpinnings of the models we often use

You'll also find a link to our redesigned website, www.danceswithopporturnity.com. We invite you to explore it.

We are particularly excited about two new sections on the website, the Best Practices page accessed through the Constructive Dialogue ® link, and our Motivational Posters page.

Best Practices presents stories of successful dialogues had by past Constructive Dialogue ® attendees. In fact, we count on you to help us write this section by sharing your own success stories. Please send them in via e-mail. We'll update the stories regularly.

Motivational Posters are a marriage of Don's fine art landscape prints and quotes or titles that remind us of themes we explore in our workshops. Enjoy them.

A serious word about our e-newsletter.

We trust you to decide if the information we're sharing is relevant or just more

clutter in your mailbox.

If it's the latter, hit the Unsubscribe button. If subscriptions drop, we'll get the message and work harder to make this relevant.

IN THIS MONTH'S NEWSLETTER WE ADDRESS
THE POSITIVE SIDE OF THINGS

The value in “catching” people doing something right

Strategies to focus on, and leveraging positive performance

How we learn from Best Practice


Catching People Doing Things Right

What do you mean, positive acknowledgement?
I want my Union Steward!!!

Scenario:

An employee informed his supervisor of a potentially hazardous malfunction in a piece of machinery. The supervisor investigated and found it was in fact a considerable risk to production and employee safety.

The problem was corrected.

Repercussions:

The supervisor asked to meet with the employee.

When the employee arrived at the supervisor's office he saw the dreaded blue sheet of paper on the supervisor's desk that was used to place information into an employee's working file. The employee immediately went on the defensive and demanded that a Union Steward accompany him to the meeting.

Taken aback, the supervisor explained that this meeting was a positive acknowledgement of the employee’s astute attention to safety risks and his decisiveness in bringing the matter to the supervisor's attention.

Holding firm, the employee still requested a Steward.

Moral:

Positive acknowledgements occur so infrequently that when they do occur, employees are often wary of their true purpose.

According to a recent Gallup Poll “…65% of people received no recognition for good work in their workplaces.”

(From an interview With Tom Rath, Gallop Organization, 2005)

It’s no wonder that when employees receive a positive acknowledgement they think:

What did I really do wrong? OR

I'm being told that so I won't feel bad when they dump some new project on me.

In an interview with the Gallop Organization, Tom Rath asserts that there is a direct relationship between positive interactions and productivity, customer service, and safety.

Barbara Frederickson of the University of Michigan has discovered that when there are three positive interactions for every negative interaction, productivity is substantially improved.


Ways to Choose Positive Interactions

Aware of it or not, we communicate our intention in every interaction with employees, colleagues and customers. Our choices shape our relationships.

1. Begin meetings with a focus on success (or at least include it in the agenda).

Imagine:
     Your boss calls a staff meeting and announces that      the focus of the meeting will be on identifying all your      department's successes and examples of exemplary      work. She further proposes the team will develop plans for how to continue and expand on these successes.

Now Imagine:
The energy, focus and impact (once the initial shock has subsided) of this type of discussion and planning.

2. Catch and acknowledge people doing things right.

In a study of successful leaders, a common trait was revealed:

“They were experts at deliberately noticing, anticipating, and magnifying positive potential.”

(Encyclopedia of Positive Questions, 2002)

3. Be aware of the impact of questions you ask yourself and others.

Consider the difference between these two questions:

What can I do today to bring the best out in people?

I wonder what problems I'll need to fix today?

It's pretty obvious when you see it. (By the way, this works at home, too.)

4. Cultivate pride.

People are most often motivated by the pride they have in their work, in who they work with, and in the products they produce NOT by Employee of the Month parking places.

Surprisingly, for most people, pride is a greater incentive than financial gain.

(Jon Katzenback. Why Pride Matters More Than Money)

Reflecting on the following questions will help you identify what motivates you:

  • Would a raise or promotion motivate me to work any differently?
  • Would the prospects of winning an award change the way I work?
  •  In what ways do I work hard to meet standards and values I set for myself?
  •  In what ways do I work hard to meet the standards and values set by my team?
  •  In what ways do I work hard to meet the standards and values set by the organization I work for?
5. Leverage best practice experience.

Accident Debriefings vs. Best Practice Investigations  

When safety violations and accidents occur, a great deal of attention is paid to debriefing the incident. We must find out what went wrong and find ways to prevent it from happening again.

Another method, which can be adopted before there is an incident, is to interview people, teams, or departments that utilize exemplary safe work practices.

  • Ask people to relate stories that reflect their best experiences.
  • Discuss what they did to contribute to this experience.
  • Identify the attributes of their best practice
  • Create a plan to replicate those experiences and practices in other areas.

The positive tone of this type of investigation establishes a better attitude among employees than a debriefing.

While debriefings are an important part of risk management, the process tends to cast blame -- something went wrong, someone's to blame.

Unfortunately, once the blame is cast, there is little positive long-term impact on other employees. Some may get a wake up call, but others will rationalize the accident as something that won't happen to them.

6. Facilitate a Constructive Dialogue.

This will provide a full-course meal of positive acknowledgement.

  • Present specific examples of exemplary performance and the impact it had on productivity, morale, customer service, or the reputation of the team.
  • Examine how this person was able to accomplish such quality work.
  • Develop a plan for how this person's work practice can be applied by others.

Our New Posters

Click on the image to view this and other posters.

Each interaction, product and action is a reflection of who we are. Our Legacy is the chronicle of our work. How will your Legacy be autographed?

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2933 E Florence Dr, Tucson, AZ 85716
Telephone: 520-795-3943